A woman in touch with her erotic power is an unstoppable force.

She delights in the art of seduction, flirtation, and sexual play.

She transforms the ordinary into beauty through the power of her LOVE.

She is infinitely desirable.

She has full sovereignty over her body, her pleasure, her sex.

She is possessed by No Man.  She claims her right to love whom she chooses, and when she does, she gives the whole of her heart.

She surrounds herself with sensual beauty.

She trusts her turn-on as an all-knowing guide.

She wholly rejects society’s oppression of female sexuality.

She’s unabashed about her body, free from insecurity or shame.

meet your Guide

Dear Sister,

I've been a somatic psychotherapist and clinical sexologist for 25 years, but more than anything...

I consider myself a Professional Troublemaker.

I’m also a Witch, a Romantic and a Rebel whose mission is to illuminate the ménage-a-trois of spirituality, sex and science. I’ve helped thousands of women unlock their innate potential for pleasure, and as a former academic, I bodaciously remind you that smart is sexy. My work is an elegant marriage of the profound and the playful, and as the founder of The Institute of Intimacy Arts, I’m passionate about how to create and (keep!) healthy, pleasure-full relationships.

After an extremely difficult five year odyssey through perimenopause, and landing powerfully on the other side, I have a lot to say about the meaning of ‘The Passage’. I want all women to feel supported and informed. I believe it’s the Wise Woman the world most needs now, and I’m passionate about launching midlife Queens into their most potent, sexy, succulent power.

I also have a relentless drive for knowledge, and have spent two decades learning and teaching trauma-informed psychotherapy models such as Internal Family Systems (IFS), Somatic Experiencing, Gestalt Therapy, Psychobiological Couples Therapy, Hypnotherapy, and in the ancient spiritual traditions of Shakti Tantra, Wicca, Kundalini Yoga, Ayurveda, Vajrayana Buddhism and much more.

Through my own journey into mid-life, I’ve realized that first and foremost....

We have to love ourselves the way we want to BE loved.

What I offer you now is a confluence of somatic psychology, neuroscience, and sexual Tantra.

I've been told I give good permission.

I hope we get to play, dear sister. You deserve to be loved and pleasured-up, deeply and passionately.

the erotic midlife Circle Includes

Embodying the Erotic Feminine:

• What does ‘feminine’ really mean? Beyond gender, we define this as a vital force of love and pleasure. You’ll learn somatic & yogic practices that tap into the feminine current to keep it vital and flowing.

• Meet the goddess archetypes

Understanding Magnetism: Opening to Pleasure and the Supreme Magick of Enjoying Yourself.

Heal old stories that are limiting your ability to receive love. We do a deep inventory of what’s embedded in your subconscious “blueprint” and re-write the script to fit your new empowered, self-loving, and pleasure-driven self.

We learn the neuroscience of pleasure and how to circulate it through your body.

Getting clear on Boundaries - Owning Your YES and your NO: When do you give your heart to someone, and when - out of self-respect - you must hold your boundaries.

Midlife is a Massive Opportunity…

You’re in the most powerful (and potentially turbulent) phase of your life! And you can absolutely blaze a passionate new chapter for yourself. BUT - it’s important to de-condition false and toxic beliefs about women, sex and age.

This is especially important for midlife, because these beliefs get lodged in the subconscious and contribute to ‘symptoms’ - such as low libido, vaginal dryness and painful sex.

In The Erotic Midlife, we forge a holy rebellion & develop a radical new vision of our worth and our sexuality - based on your deepest desires - not your age.