sister, i SEE YOU.
Your body, once familiar, now feels foreign. Aching joints, unpredictable weight shifts, a libido that flickers like a faulty lightbulb.
Some days, it feels like your sensuality has packed up and left without a forwarding address.
And yet—somewhere inside you, she’s still there.
The woman who used to feel the pulse of desire running through her veins.
The woman who once got turned on by the way the wind kissed her skin.
The woman who knows—deep down—that she is not meant to fade.
Midlife can be full of challenges…
Between the physical discomfort of perimenopause and menopause, your body changing shape, aging parents, kids, strained relationship dynamics, and a society that does not inherently see your value, midlife is a time that you need resilience.
THE TRUTH ABOUT MIDLIFE (THAT NO ONE TELLS YOU)
They talk about the hot flashes, the mood swings, the weight gain.
But they don’t talk about the grief. The deep, aching loss of the woman you used to be.
They don’t talk about how isolating it feels when your body no longer responds the way it once did.
They don’t talk about the moments when sex feels like more of a chore than a pleasure, or the nights when you wonder if you’ll ever feel that spark again.
Or that sex has become downright painful, and your partner is left frustrated, confused, impatient. There might be more conflict or distance as you negotiate sex in a whole new way.
All you know is that many things don’t work for you anymore.
Because here’s that I want you to know:
Your body isn’t broken. It’s evolving.
Your pleasure isn’t gone. It’s waiting to have its definition expanded.
Your sexuality isn’t over. It’s transforming into something even more potent IF you know how to work with it.
Welcome to
the erotic midlife circle
a live, virtual group to turn up your erotic feminine power - in midlife and beyond.
sex is not a problem to solve.
It’s actually the solution.
midlife can be full of challenges…
Between the physical discomfort of perimenopause and menopause, your body changing shape, aging parents, kids, strained relationship dynamics, and a society that does not inherently see your value, midlife is a time that you need resilience.
sexual pleasure fortifies your capacity to face challenges.
It’s just science.
Oxytocin, dopamine, opioids, and a range of neurotransmitters rise when you’re body is in pleasure.
Hormones balance, you feel more assertive, motivation goes up, your immunity improves, nutrients get absorbed, and you get a beautiful healthy glow. And there are so many more benefits.
Don’t give up on sex.
It will keep you strong, vital, creative, productive and happy.
this is not the end of sex
it’s a new, delicious era - to discover, express & receive your true desires
your pleasure feeds your power
and will nourish your radiance as you age
“Get your mojo back, ladies!”
I came into this Circle after a nasty divorce. After 20 years of marriage and 3 kids, I was terrified and yet excited. Eva and the Sisterhood loved me back to life. I now feel confident, sexy, and have men chasing me. Even MUCH younger men! The funny thing is - I thought I wanted another partnership, but now I just want to have fun!”
- Helen Miranda, MBA, Investor
what is Sex Magick?
Eva explains how you can use erotic turn-on to fuel your success.
“This program renewed my faith in love.”
It was an absolutely delicious deep dive into the heart of sacred feminine allure. My heart is still aflame with appreciation for each beautiful Goddess in our circle — our sisterhood has transformed me. My heart is clear that I yearn to call in my life partner…. and after Aphrodite Circle I am ready. Eva is a wise, embodied guide who will lead you powerfully into your sensual power.
~ Keri C., Realtor
Beauty is not about your age or appearance.
It’s how you embody your worth.
IMAGINE…..
Feeling love for your changing body, so you look in the mirror with appreciation for the beautiful miracle you are.
Having hope for a whole new paradigm of confidence, turn-on and deeply satisfying relationships.
ENJOYING sex more than ever before - without the hangups or self-consciousness you used to have.
Owning your age in a way that exudes power and magnetism.
Flirting in ways that inspire devotion from your partner(s).
Feeling turned-on, powerful and PULSING with ALIVENESS!
“The Circle was absolutely delicious.”
As a mature, newly single woman, navigating my love life has been daunting with all the dating apps and rampant hookup culture.
Eva's class was a deep dive into the empowering world of the sensuous and the sacred. I am grateful for her fearless, wise ways and I can't wait for more!
- Stephanie Dawn, Radiant Living Priestess
what is the erotic feminine?
it’s not just for the young - it’s within us at every age - and blooms at midlife and beyond
A woman in touch with her erotic power is an unstoppable force.
She delights in the art of seduction, flirtation, and sexual play.
She transforms the ordinary into beauty through the power of her LOVE.
She is infinitely desirable.
She has full sovereignty over her body, her pleasure, her sex.
She is possessed by No Man. She claims her right to love whom she chooses, and when she does, she gives the whole of her heart.
She surrounds herself with sensual beauty.
She trusts her turn-on as an all-knowing guide.
She wholly rejects society’s oppression of female sexuality.
She’s unabashed about her body, free from insecurity or shame.
meet your Guide
Dear Sister,
I've been a somatic psychotherapist and clinical sexologist for 25 years, but more than anything...
I consider myself a Professional Troublemaker.
I’m also a Witch, a Romantic and a Rebel whose mission is to illuminate the ménage-a-trois of spirituality, sex and science. I’ve helped thousands of women unlock their innate potential for pleasure, and as a former academic, I bodaciously remind you that smart is sexy. My work is an elegant marriage of the profound and the playful, and as the founder of The Institute of Intimacy Arts, I’m passionate about how to create and (keep!) healthy, pleasure-full relationships.
After an extremely difficult five year odyssey through perimenopause, and landing powerfully on the other side, I have a lot to say about the meaning of ‘The Passage’. I want all women to feel supported and informed. I believe it’s the Wise Woman the world most needs now, and I’m passionate about launching midlife Queens into their most potent, sexy, succulent power.
I also have a relentless drive for knowledge, and have spent two decades learning and teaching trauma-informed psychotherapy models such as Internal Family Systems (IFS), Somatic Experiencing, Gestalt Therapy, Psychobiological Couples Therapy, Hypnotherapy, and in the ancient spiritual traditions of Shakti Tantra, Wicca, Kundalini Yoga, Ayurveda, Vajrayana Buddhism and much more.
Through my own journey into mid-life, I’ve realized that first and foremost....
We have to love ourselves the way we want to BE loved.
What I offer you now is a confluence of somatic psychology, neuroscience, and sexual Tantra.
I've been told I give good permission.
I hope we get to play, dear sister. You deserve to be loved and pleasured-up, deeply and passionately.
the erotic midlife Circle Includes
Fourteen live,
interactive Sessions
Via Zoom, so we can see each other’s beautiful faces.
=> Live Teaching Sessions are one hour per week.
=> “Love Lab” interactive group coaching is one hour per week.
Always recorded for replay.
weekly office hours
(”love lab”)
to get live coaching from eva
How can sex feel good at this age? Where do I even START with dating again? Our circle supports you with wise advice, so you operate from your most empowered self.
“Love Lab” live coaching meets one hour per week.
a juicy private online forum
Women make the deepest transformation in sisterhood. Share your stories, get urgent advice, and stay connected in our secret forum, where you’ll also get tons of coaching from Eva.
support for sexual wellness at midlife
We discuss hormonal balance, pelvic floor function, changes in libido and orgasm, and negotiating sex in a way that honors YOUR specific needs.
a powerful sisterhood of wise women 45+
We get you. You’ll be engaged, turned-on, and connected. Our Sisterhood celebrates your lusciousness and keeps you on-track with transformation.
a total reimagining of your erotic life
Midlife is a perfect time to claim the pleasure that’s rightfully yours. It’s a time to redefine yourself erotically - and we will map what that looks and feels like for you!
“The Erotic Midlife brought me back to life. ”
When I came to this course, I was depressed, irritable, and angry all the time. I felt like I was dead inside, and had no desire for sex whatsoever. As a single mom, I didn’t realize that I was disconnected from my feminine pleasure, and had lost myself in being the “perfect” mother and boss. I thought I should be able to do it all. Now I feel whole, juicy, and turned-on because I follow the practices Eva taught us. And I’m actually more successful at everything!! Thank you Eva and my Aphrodite sisters!
- Alena Vilasakova, Art Gallery Owner
yOur path To ageless pleasure
Session Three
Session One
Session Two
Embodying the Erotic Feminine:
What does ‘feminine’ really mean? Beyond gender, we define this as a vital force of love and pleasure. You’ll learn somatic & yogic practices that tap into the feminine current to keep it vital and flowing.
Meet the goddess archetypes
Understanding Magnetism: Opening to Pleasure and the Supreme Magick of Enjoying Yourself.
Heal old stories that are limiting your ability to receive love. We do a deep inventory of what’s embedded in your subconscious “blueprint” and re-write the script to fit your new empowered, self-loving, and pleasure-driven self.
We learn the neuroscience of pleasure and how to circulate it through your body.
Getting clear on Boundaries - Owning Your YES and your NO: When do you give your heart to someone, and when - out of self-respect - you must hold your boundaries.
Session Six
Session Four
Emotional Self Mastery: To honor yourself fully, and to cultivate integrity in your relationships, you’ll be given tools to transcend emotional reactivity and hold your power with grace and self-worth.
Session Five
Deepening Intimacy: How to communicate authentically and skillfully to ask for exactly what you want. Here we learn communication structures specifically designed to reach the masculine brain, including texts!
The Art of Sacred Seduction: How to evoke his passion and commitment through the exquisite art of teasing and receiving. Here we learn the Erotic Formula and how men tick - and practice the trifecta of Erotic Feminine Allure: Lean back, create tension, and enjoy yourself :)
(OPTIONAL) Hot tips for online & app dating so you don’t waste your time or get overwhelmed.
Includes - coaching & feedback on your profile, selecting pictures, and initiating contact.
Session Seven
you get to decide how you age
Midlife is a Massive Opportunity…
You’re in the most powerful (and potentially turbulent) phase of your life! And you can absolutely blaze a passionate new chapter for yourself. BUT - it’s important to de-condition false and toxic beliefs about women, sex and age.
This is especially important for midlife, because these beliefs get lodged in the subconscious and contribute to ‘symptoms’ - such as low libido, vaginal dryness and painful sex.
In The Erotic Midlife, we forge a holy rebellion & develop a radical new vision of our worth and our sexuality - based on your deepest desires - not your age.
step into your most wildly succulent life!
details:
The next Circle is coming soon!
Two payments of
$550
Single payment (save $103)
$997
I need to talk to Eva first
We understand.
Schedule a complimentary call with Eva to see if this is a fit for you.
“I was always shy and shut-down. Now at midlife I’m ready to enjoy myself!”
This has been the best thing I’ve ever done for myself. I was always afraid to own my feminine power, much less my pleasure. My marriage became stale because I was in my head all the time. Now I bring my husband my ‘Lalita’ - my pleasure and playfulness. We’re both SO happy about it.
- Susan, Business Owner
“I discovered a whole new power within me.”
I came to this program feeling isolated and ashamed about entering this stage of life. Eva’s program was totally transformative. Through it, I rediscovered the confidence to honor my inner voice. With Eva’s guidance, I found the courage to express my gifts and launch an exciting new business! I feel renewed energy and inspiration to achieve my dreams, and I’m not letting hangups about me age stop me!
I wholeheartedly endorse Eva’s expertise. It’s an empowering space for any woman navigating the inevitable changes that come with midlife.
- Donna Dyer, Founder of QuantumNap
Frequently Asked Questions
I’m not sexually active, is this course appropriate for me?
YES. It’s a perfect time to transform old beliefs and replace them with new, empowering, pleasure-full practices that shift your “story”.
I’m in a relationship, is this course appropriate for me?
YES. Many women (typically almost half) who attend this course are in long-term partnerships. The material we cover will absolutely shift your relationship (and you) for the better. This course also honors non-monogamous relationships.
What is the time commitment?
We meet live for two hours per week, one hour for class, and one hour for Love Lab (optional). Including the practices, you can expect 2.5 hours per week. Of course, the more you participate, the deeper your transformation.
I am a survivor of trauma, is this course appropriate for me?
Absolutely. All of our content is trauma-informed, and designed to support the unique journey of trauma survivors. If you have significant unresolved trauma, we do suggest to attend concurrent trauma therapy.
“I’ve never been happier in my skin!”
I thought my love life was over because I was too old. I had no idea I was just going about it all wrong - that trying so hard to impress men was actually pushing them away. I thought I may never have a partner again. But thanks to Eva’s knowledge and support, I’m now in a solid relationship and head over heels in love. Aphrodite Circle was a game-changer - every woman should have this knowledge!
- Gloria, Financial Advisor
